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Keep any and all conversation that occurs in the bedroom as POSITIVE as possible.
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Talk about NEW sexual activies before you try them with your partner.
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Remember that sex is supposed to be FUN! (Sex is NOT just another task solely for your benefit or the benefit of your partner.)
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Try to find a variety of ways to share physical intimacy with your partner.
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Remember that sex does't have to be fireworks for each of you each time.
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The BEST SEX is often shared when you feel safe and comfortable around your partner.
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Try to resolve relationship problems or issues BEFORE going to bed, NOT in bed.
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Communication is an important method of connection. (It includes sending and receiving body language with your partner.)
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Set aside some special time to connect with your partner without any exectations.
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Remember: Most women turn on with their ears and most Men turn on with their eyes.